Estate planning is crucial for everyone but can be especially vital for LGBTQIA+ couples. Even though marriage equality laws have leveled the playing field in many ways, there are still unique challenges and opportunities that LGBTQIA+ couples should consider. Creating and updating your estate plan to reflect your changing life situation is key to protecting your assets and loved ones.
Like any other couple, LGBTQIA+ couples must have certain essential documents in place to protect their rights and wishes. These include:
These documents are critical for ensuring that your wishes are respected, especially when one partner might not be recognized as a legal spouse due to outdated or incorrect paperwork.
One of the unique challenges for LGBTQIA+ couples, particularly those with children, is the legal recognition of both parents. In many cases, only one partner is the biological parent, which can create complications if the biological parent passes away or if the couple separates.
By adopting their partner's child, non-biological parents can establish a legal relationship with the child and obtain parental rights. This can prevent disputes over custody with extended family members and protect the child's inheritance rights.
LGBTQIA+ individuals must ensure that the beneficiary forms for their insurance plans, retirement accounts, and other financial assets are current. These forms override what is written in a will. Therefore, if you forget to replace an ex-partner or family member as a beneficiary, that person will inherit those assets.
This is especially important for LGBTQIA+ couples who may have previously named someone other than their spouse as a beneficiary before their marriage was legally recognized. Regularly reviewing and updating these forms, especially after major life events, ensures that your assets go to the person you intend.
Before same-sex marriage became legal, many LGBTQIA+ individuals entered into domestic partnerships, civil unions, or other legal arrangements to protect their relationships. However, some states automatically upgraded these partnerships to marriages when the law changed, sometimes without the couple's knowledge.
This can create a "tangled web" of legal relationships that could lead to complications with your estate. For instance, if you didn’t formally dissolve a previous partnership, your former partner might have a claim to your estate. It’s important to resolve any past legal unions to prevent future disputes.
In a story shared in the MassMutual blog, Joan Burda, an attorney in Lakewood, Ohio, shares the cautionary tale of LGBTQIA+ couples who entered domestic partnerships or civil unions before legalizing same-sex marriage. These partnerships were sometimes automatically upgraded to marriages without the couple’s knowledge when laws changed, leading to unexpected complications.
For instance, couples who thought they had dissolved their previous legal relationships might find that their former partners still have legal claims on their estate. This underscores the importance of reviewing and resolving all prior legal unions to prevent future disputes and ensure the full protection of their current relationships.
Estate planning is not a one-time event. Laws change, relationships evolve and your plan needs to reflect those changes. LGBTQIA+ couples should take the time to review their estate planning documents, resolve any past legal relationships and ensure that their beneficiary forms are up to date.
Your relationship and family deserve the strongest legal protections available. Don’t leave your future to chance—ensure that your estate plan reflects the unique needs of LGBTQIA+ couples. Whether you’re navigating the complexities of adoption, resolving past legal unions, or updating beneficiary forms, our experienced estate planning team is here to help.
Schedule a consultation with us today to start building a plan that secures your rights, protects your loved ones and honors your wishes. Let’s work together to safeguard your family’s future.
Legacy One Law Firm, APLC is an estate planning law firm in Los Angeles, California, serving families throughout the State. Schedule a quick and easy consultation with our estate planning attorney, Sedric E. Collins, Esq., or call 323-900-5450.